Discipline The Disappointment

If you ever go into your own business there are going to be times that you look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, "What the hell am I doing?" Now, if I had a lot of investment in the business I would do everything I could to keep it going because of the financial loss I would take. Under those circumstances it doesn't matter what comes up, you have to work through it and hope that other issues don't come up so you can stay above water. In this economy you really don't have much control over it so the business might have to go under. That could be a very large financial loss and it would be hard to come back from that.

What if you're an employee and you do a great job, but because of the economy you don't get a raise or you get a very small one. You don't get that promotion you thought you were going to get and now your stuck in a job that you really don't like and you can't get another one because jobs are scarce.

These are two examples of huge disappointments that we sometimes face and I know there are many other ones that you could probably think of. We are all going to face these disappointments at one point or another in our lives, but it is not the disappointment that we have to worry about. We should be focusing on how we react to these feelings. We must learn to discipline the disappointments in our lives. What does that mean? It means don't let it get you down because there is a reason these things happen to you. Don't look at it as a bad thing, but a good thing. Everything is as it should be in our lives because our thoughts create our world. If you have positive thoughts all the time and know what you want your life to look like, then those disappointments are meaningless. They are there to challenge you and get you out of your comfort zone. Master this and you will have everything you want in life.

In Network Marketing, the disappointment comes when you talk to a lot of people and they don't see what you see. Often times that is enough to make someone quit or take many steps backward. If you feel this way the first thing you must do is go back and look at your BELIEF. Does the product work for you? If it is "YES", than what is the problem? Are you going to let someone talk you out of what you believe in? Once again, learn to discipline the disappointment. Don't ever let anyone steal your dreams if you believe in something. Focus on the end result and those disappointments will not even enter your consciousness.